How to avoid dating an abusive creep
Regardless of the reasons, if you’re a lousy lay, you’re not going to get a chance for a repeat performance – presuming you even made it to the bedroom in the first place.
Just remember: being a great lover is about being willing to listen and respond to your partner, not about how many people you’ve slept with or knowing how to do the Transylvanian Twist.
Other times, it’s because people have their way of schtupping and aren’t going to change for love nor money, no matter how bored their partner gets counting cracks in the ceiling.
impact in terms of attraction than what any one particular woman is looking for in a partner.
It doesn’t matter how attractive you may be, no matter how sexy or how cultured, how charming or how whatever you are; if you hit somebody’s deal breakers, then you’re out.
In short, it’s a pretty strong indicator that you don’t actually bring anything to the table.
Why should somebody be attracted to you when it’s clear that of their partner’s time and energy, demanding that they manage two people’s emotional needs, not just their own.
Now this isn’t to say that you have to be a stand-up comedian in order to get a date.